oops, oh mai.

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kianigurl808: IF YOU ARE HAWAIIAN, YOU NEED TO WATCH THIS NOW!

Fri, 18 Nov 2011 20:01:44 -1000

kianigurl808:

IF YOU ARE HAWAIIAN, YOU NEED TO WATCH THIS NOW!

peacelovelondonx: A Couple Thats J’s Together Stays Together

Mon, 31 Oct 2011 23:53:59 -1000

peacelovelondonx:

A Couple Thats J’s Together Stays Together

rawwwwrrrr! — for the velociraptors<3

Wed, 26 Oct 2011 01:51:57 -1000

rawwwwrrrr! — for the velociraptors<3

why, oh, why am i always left disappointed? not only in YOU, but mostly in myself? this. has. got....

Thu, 20 Oct 2011 00:39:00 -1000

why, oh, why am i always left disappointed? not only in YOU, but mostly in myself? this. has. got. to. change. asap.

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Sun, 16 Oct 2011 21:57:25 -1000

kcmiranda: This made me smile.

Sun, 16 Oct 2011 21:30:49 -1000

kcmiranda:

This made me smile.

@xoxoitslee @etakxo @dacattackkk — our future sons fasho....

Wed, 05 Oct 2011 22:38:15 -1000

@xoxoitslee @etakxo @dacattackkk — our future sons fasho. #pregnancypact

etakxo: rashh: gela-to: Ugh thisss is so bad but still so...

Wed, 05 Oct 2011 22:36:42 -1000

etakxo:

rashh:

gela-to:

Ugh thisss is so bad but still so good.

um.. keith sweat.

maile.

i. die. #dead

The difference between ...

Wed, 05 Oct 2011 22:34:46 -1000

dacattackkk:

retardationmotivation:

that808boom:

10knotes:

white kids dancing at parties :

asian kids dancing at parties :

black kids dancing at parties :

oh my god…TRUTH.

LOL

MAILE.

leilockheart: CLICK HERE for more photos

Sat, 27 Aug 2011 12:08:11 -1000

leilockheart:

CLICK HERE for more photos

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Sat, 27 Aug 2011 12:07:06 -1000

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Sat, 27 Aug 2011 12:02:27 -1000

papertissue: EAT (by Rick Mereki) love that majorityyy of my...

Thu, 04 Aug 2011 23:19:11 -1000

papertissue:

EAT (by Rick Mereki)

love that majorityyy of my friends LIVE TO EAT and not ~~eat to live~~!!
is 00:22 — POKE??!!!

That dick make her go

Wed, 03 Aug 2011 23:32:50 -1000

"I awoke this morning & asked, “What is life about?” I found the answer in my room: the fan said,..."

Mon, 01 Aug 2011 21:18:50 -1000

“I awoke this morning & asked, “What is life about?” I found the answer in my room: the fan said, “Be cool.” The roof said, “Aim high.” The window said, “See the world!” The clock said, “Every minute is precious.” The mirror said, “Reflect before you act.” The calendar said, “Be up to date.” The door said, “Push hard for your goals.” The floor said, “Kneel down and pray”…”

- Legit! — AMONT (via ednalen)

want!!! i’ll love you forever if you buy it for me ;)

Mon, 01 Aug 2011 01:36:01 -1000

want!!! i’ll love you forever if you buy it for me ;)

When you "Fuck Up" (whether the fuck-up is minor or major) practice the "Four A's".

Wed, 27 Jul 2011 02:48:28 -1000

When you "Fuck Up" (whether the fuck-up is minor or major) practice the "Four A's".:

siriuslydeep:

When you “Fuck Up” (whether the fuck-up is minor or major) practice the “Four A’s”.

Acknowledgment

Apology

Amends

Action

#1) Acknowledgment — is really important, IMO, because if you don’t realize what you actually did, and how it was “fucked up”, there’s a high probability that you are going to do it again — a very high probability.

#2) Apology — is also really important — but it has to be genuine (which requires #1 - Acknowledgment). Saying things like “I’m sorry if you felt bad about what I said/wrote” or “I’m sorry if your feelings got hurt”, is, IMO, completely different from saying “I’m sorry that I said/wrote that. I see how it was fucked up, and here’s how I know that it was fucked up … . . “. (Keep in mind that “if” is a word reserved for hypotheticals, and doesn’t usually refer to real life. When used in apology, “if” is usually just a dilutive, and if you can’t really apologize, then don’t apologize at all. Sort of a perverse Thumper ethic.)

#3) Amends — sometimes the energy required to actually think about how you fucked up and make an honest acknowledgment/apology is enough to return balance to the situation (depends on the type of fuck up, though). In some cases, “making amends” might also mean returning money/energy/time that your fuck-up created for someone else. This can be returned in any of a number of creative ways. Example: If you got all defensive in an argument, and therefore the argument took eight hours instead of 30 minutes (hey, I’m a lesbian — I can DO me some processing!), consider just giving the person with whom you got all defensive eight hours of your time to do for them something that they might have gotten done if you hadn’t been all uppity-up in yourself being a defensive shit (not that I’ve ever done that … .no, that has never happened with me… . . OK, maybe just that once … OK — Fuck it! I’m completely busted here … .)

#4) Action — This may be the most important of the 4 A’s. If you know that you did something that was fucked up, and you’ve expressed that you’re genuinely sorry that you did this fucked up thing, then really, the only concrete evidence of this will be that you will change what you do in the future. For me, if I don’t take this step (action), the other three are just so much manipulation.

fuckyeahhappy: this is so cute i just might...

Wed, 27 Jul 2011 02:42:22 -1000

fuckyeahhappy:

this is so cute i just might explode!!!!!!!!!!!!

this definitely makes me happy. hahaaa!

someday!working myself up to it…

Mon, 25 Jul 2011 02:00:35 -1000

someday!
working myself up to it…